One woman reflects on her journey to love as a fearful-avoidant, shaped by her childhood experiences and the unrealistic expectations she had about romance. As the last single friend standing, she unpacks her fears of loneliness and relationships, revealing patterns of avoidance and co-dependency. She emphasizes the importance of self-love and healing, setting the stage for further exploration in Part Two.
Thank you so much for creating this and sharing your story. ♥️💕🙏🏾
I’ve always had a complex relationships to love. Often feeling like this underlying sense of loneliness and disconnection with those close to me. What I really loved the most about reading this piece was the love letter because while I was reading I felt gratitude and grief overtake me.
Thanks so much for taking the time to read and digest what I shared here. It's affirming to know that I'm not alone on this journey. I would encourage you to try the exercise for yourself. I shared in on Threads and so many women expressed how seen they felt when they did it. Peace on your journey finding secure love within yourself and your community.
😭😭😭😭😭❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 (for now all I’ll say is … as a fellow fearful avoidant I hope u know how wildly this resonated with and like, spoke to me - I’m sending it to myself cos I wanna come back to this whenever I feel hopeless helpless alone broken am gaslighting myself etc ) xxxxxx thank u!!!
This means so nuch much to me to hear! I'm learning how to navigate this aspect of my life. As I was writing this, it clicked for me that I had a fearful-avoidant attachment style. Thank you so much for leaving a comment it made my day ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for writing this. Though I could relate to few part but not all, it helped me get new insights and perspectives. I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing your journey.
Thank you so much for creating this and sharing your story. ♥️💕🙏🏾
I’ve always had a complex relationships to love. Often feeling like this underlying sense of loneliness and disconnection with those close to me. What I really loved the most about reading this piece was the love letter because while I was reading I felt gratitude and grief overtake me.
Thanks so much for taking the time to read and digest what I shared here. It's affirming to know that I'm not alone on this journey. I would encourage you to try the exercise for yourself. I shared in on Threads and so many women expressed how seen they felt when they did it. Peace on your journey finding secure love within yourself and your community.
I felt this piece DEEPLY!!! Thank you for your vulnerability and sharing this!
I appreciate you talking the time out your day to read and comment Amirah. Much love to you. <3
😭😭😭😭😭❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥❤️🔥🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 (for now all I’ll say is … as a fellow fearful avoidant I hope u know how wildly this resonated with and like, spoke to me - I’m sending it to myself cos I wanna come back to this whenever I feel hopeless helpless alone broken am gaslighting myself etc ) xxxxxx thank u!!!
This means so nuch much to me to hear! I'm learning how to navigate this aspect of my life. As I was writing this, it clicked for me that I had a fearful-avoidant attachment style. Thank you so much for leaving a comment it made my day ♥️♥️♥️♥️
Thank you for writing this. Though I could relate to few part but not all, it helped me get new insights and perspectives. I appreciate you being vulnerable and sharing your journey.